When it comes to approaching women, a lot of guys are secretly being fed dangerous information (indirectly). In other words, many guys assume that the only place to meet women is at bars and clubs.
The truth is you can meet women anywhere. I'm always surprised at how often I'm asked: "Where's the best place to meet women?"
It's simple.
This may sound crazy at first, but start by creating a list of all the possible places you see women. Again, this may seem a bit unusual, but trust me, it could help if you ever wondered: "Where can I meet women?"
Here's an example list:
1. Gym
2. Bookstore
3. Club
4. Bar
5. Festival
6. Party
7. Gas station
8. Trade Show
9. Grocery store
10. Parking Lot
11. Jogging outside
12. Retail store
13. Park
14. Convenient store
15. Car shop (in the waiting area)
16. Any place that has a waiting area
17. Online
If you have a reasonably healthy brain, then you'll quickly develop the new belief that compatible women can be found anywhere!
It's very challenging not to feel stupid looking at this long list of tons and tons of places to find women, while saying something like 'I can't find women?' or 'Where do you find women?'
Once you've read over the list for a second time, you just need to know that your success will be based on:
Your beliefs about women + Your strategy + Your overall perspective
Once those three parts are crystal-clear in your brain, the only thing that you need to remember is that there are lots of women are already interested in you, even if you have a horrible game plan for introducing yourself to her. And even though you don't even know these women's names.
It's almost like imagining a map of your country.
And there are lots of these little red dots all over the map representing these women. Some will be attractive. Some will be average. Some will be not-so attractive.
I'm not saying that every woman on the planet will think you're the most amazing guy, but there will be some (more than you could ever handle) that are scattered throughout the country (and even OTHER COUNTRIES!).
And they already find you irresistible. You just have to meet them.
Here's the fun part. When your perspective is upgraded, these red dots began to multiply like crazy with the slightest adjustment.
When your strategy (game plan) is upgraded, these red dots began to multiply like crazy (even more) with the slightest adjustment.
Some women are not going to be interested in you whether you like it or not.
Some women are going to be interested in you whether you like it or not.
When you see a woman out somewhere, she could be a Red Dot!
The idea is to walk over to her and at a minimum say "Hi".
If you want to be a little more natural, here are two easy ways to start the conversation:
Way #1. Make a statement about the situation.
Way #2. Ask a question about the situation.
Remember the list of 16 places you could meet a new girl. Well, let's say she's in the library and she just grabbed a book. You could make a statement about the situation:
You: I heard that's a really good book.
(Notice how that seems very easy to do. And if she's a Red Dot, then you're going to be glad you did.)
In conclusion, women are everywhere. All you have to do is understand and focus on connecting the red dots.
Instructor CR James (Author, Seduction Strategist) recently created a book called Super Approach Power: The 9 Secrets To Approaching Women. For a limited time, you can get a free trial copy at: http://superpowermedia.com/9reasons
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